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Find your first toy

Four quick taps and we suggest the one to start with, and why. Nothing is saved, and every order comes in a plain parcel.

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Who is it for?

Choosing a first toy: the short version

Start outside. Most people with a vulva get the most from external stimulation, so a small wand or bullet is the most common first toy. Nothing goes inside, and it is easy to share with a partner.

For a penis, a soft sleeve or stroker is the usual first step; a vibrating ring is the easiest toy to bring into partner sex.

As a couple, choose something both of you feel during sex, or start with foreplay: a blindfold changes more than you would expect (a safe, simple start).

Materials: body-safe silicone, used with a water-based lubricant. More in your first toy: what to pick and what to skip.

Every order ships in a plain parcel with a neutral sender name. No one sees what you ordered.